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Matthew 19:38 - 20:28 and parallel passages

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We are approaching the time of the Triumphal Entry. Before this last week begins, Christ has some examples for his disciples which should ring with us today.

Christ and the Children

 

Mat 19:13-15

Mar 10:13-16

Luk 18:15-17

13 Then little children were brought to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked those who brought them.
14 Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."
15 When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from there.

13 People were bringing little children to Jesus to have him touch them, but the disciples rebuked them.
14 When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
15 I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."
16 And he took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them.

15 People were also bringing babies to Jesus to have him touch them. When the disciples saw this, they rebuked them.
16 But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
17 I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."

 

Background

It helps to know a little background here. First, the superstition of the time was that to have your baby (translated “little children” here) touched by a great rabbi was bound to bring blessing to the child. Some of the rabbi’s piety would rub off, somehow. It’s still carried on to this day, in a sense. Have you ever asked for a celebrity’s autograph?

There’s somewhat of a “wow” factor in this. Oliver Wendell Holmes, justice of the US Supreme Court many years ago, tells a story about this. Someone asked to shake his hand. “You don’t know how it feels,” said the young man, “to shake the hand of someone who fought at Gettysburg.” Holmes replied to the contrary – for as a young boy he had shaken the hand of a man who had suffered with Washington at Valley Forge.

The Disciples

Jesus’ disciples see the matter in a different light. Jesus has set his face toward Jerusalem; he therefore should not be delayed by unimportant things. Particularly, there should be no delay because unimportant people (women) were bring other unimportant people (infants) to him – just to be touched.

“Have a little respect here,” they might have said. It is a misuse of dignity. As Isaiah had it,

Isa 57:15 NIV For this is what the high and lofty One says--

he who lives forever, whose name is holy:

"I live in a high and holy place,

but also with him who is contrite and lowly in spirit,

to revive the spirit of the lowly

and to revive the heart of the contrite.

Being like children

It is recognized that Christ was not teaching infant baptism here; rather, he is teaching the attitudes needed in the kingdom. Here are a few for your perusal, taken from the children of the time:

  • Children know that obedience pleases, as we should be pleasing to God.
  • Children are naturally curious, never satisfied with the first explanation. And our attitude towards the Scriptures is?
  • Children are open to being taught. A good teacher can do much.
  • Children, when raised in love, reply with trust and loyalty.

These are all good things for us to imitate in our walk with the Lord. But may I add one that might have escaped your notice? Children are in over their heads. Daily there are things in their lives they don’t understand, which they must take on faith in their parents.

Rich Young Ruler

 

Mat 19:16-20:16

Mar 10:17-31

Luk 18:18-30

16 Now a man came up to Jesus and asked, "Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?"
17 "Why do you ask me about what is good?" Jesus replied. "There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, obey the commandments."
18 "Which ones?" the man inquired.

Jesus replied, " 'Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony,
19 honor your father and mother,'[4] and 'love your neighbor as yourself.'[5]
"
20 "All these I have kept," the young man said. "What do I still lack?"
21 Jesus answered, "If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."
22 When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth.
23 Then Jesus said to his disciples, "I tell you the truth, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven.
24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."
25 When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and asked, "Who then can be saved?"
26 Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."
27 Peter answered him, "We have left everything to follow you! What then will there be for us?"
28 Jesus said to them, "I tell you the truth, at the renewal of all things, when the Son of Man sits on his glorious throne, you who have followed me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel.
29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother[6] or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.
30 But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first.

17 As Jesus started on his way, a man ran up to him and fell on his knees before him. "Good teacher," he asked, "what must I do to inherit eternal life?"
18 "Why do you call me good?" Jesus answered. "No one is good--except God alone.
19 You know the commandments: 'Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, do not defraud, honor your father and mother.'[4]
"
20 "Teacher," he declared, "all these I have kept since I was a boy."
21 Jesus looked at him and loved him. "One thing you lack," he said. "Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."
22 At this the man's face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth.
23 Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, "How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!"
24 The disciples were amazed at his words. But Jesus said again, "Children, how hard it is[5] to enter the kingdom of God!
25 It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."
26 The disciples were even more amazed, and said to each other, "Who then can be saved?"
27 Jesus looked at them and said, "With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God."
28 Peter said to him, "We have left everything to follow you!"
29 "I tell you the truth," Jesus replied, "no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel
30 will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age (homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields--and with them, persecutions) and in the age to come, eternal life.
31 But many who are first will be last, and the last first."

 

18 A certain ruler asked him, "Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?"
19 "Why do you call me good?" Jesus answered. "No one is good--except God alone.
20 You know the commandments: 'Do not commit adultery, do not murder, do not steal, do not give false testimony, honor your father and mother.'[2]
"
21 "All these I have kept since I was a boy," he said.
22 When Jesus heard this, he said to him, "You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."
23 When he heard this, he became very sad, because he was a man of great wealth.
24 Jesus looked at him and said, "How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!
25 Indeed, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."
26 Those who heard this asked, "Who then can be saved?"
27 Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God."
28 Peter said to him, "We have left all we had to follow you!"
29 "I tell you the truth," Jesus said to them, "no one who has left home or wife or brothers or parents or children for the sake of the kingdom of God
30 will fail to receive many times as much in this age and, in the age to come, eternal life."

 

What is this man’s problem?

This man comes very close to the “ideal” religious person. To his credit, he knows that he’s missing something in life – and evidently this is a conclusion on his part, not just something from the Mosaic Law.

So, he goes to God and asks what he is missing. An ideal strategy; who would know better? Indeed, he must ask from God because he knows it is not in the Mosaic Law, for if it were he would be doing it.

Here we see the dilemma before Nicodemus: what does the man of ordinary holiness have to do? Nicodemus saw no need for repentance, for he had lived a holy life, sacrifices atoning for his sin. To the sinner Jesus says, “repent.” To the man of ordinary holiness he says, “Be born again.” Or, as Jesus has it here, go from the life you know so certainly to the life you cannot know – follow Me.

The barrier of wealth

The common view of wealth of the time was that it was a sign of favor from God. It granted the wealthy the privilege of giving generously. That is a warm and wonderful feeling.[1] But as Chrysostom had it, “Great is the barrier of wealth.” We are taught the evils of the love of money.[2] But for those whose wealth is only a barrier to Christ, not a competing love, what shall we say?

Jesus’ reply

You will note that Jesus, in his reply, does not quote all ten commandments. He omits the ones that deal with God, and cites only those which are interpersonal. Even then he omits one – about covetousness – since this fellow is more likely to be envied than envy. He thus brings out the ordinary holiness of the man – and likewise Jesus’ love for him.

Did Jesus command his wealth away in a stern tone? I suspect not; rather He would have combined the seriousness of the occasion with the sadness of one who knows what the answer will be.

Perhaps this will surprise you, but Jesus didn’t even make the fullness of his demands known. He has, in fact, asked the man to do only what is easy. For the fullness of the command is much more bitter: deny yourself and take up the Cross. And this is much more difficult than sell all you have.

Disciples

The disciples evidence two concerns here:

  • First, they are accustomed to the idea of wealth as God’s favor. This man had great wealth and a pious life; if he couldn’t make it into the kingdom of God, who would have a chance? Hence we have that all things are possible with God. We would do well to remember whose kingdom it is.
  • But come to think about it, we’ve given up all we had to follow you. What about us? Christ understands our ways; that’s why the Judgment includes reward for those who followed Christ faithfully.

A Mother’s Request

 

Matthew 20:20-28

Mark 10:35-45

Mat 20:20-28 NIV Then the mother of Zebedee's sons came to Jesus with her sons and, kneeling down, asked a favor of him. (21) "What is it you want?" he asked.

She said, "Grant that one of these two sons of mine may sit at your right and the other at your left in your kingdom." (22) "You don't know what you are asking," Jesus said to them. "Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?"

"We can," they answered. (23) Jesus said to them, "You will indeed drink from my cup, but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared by my Father." (24) When the ten heard about this, they were indignant with the two brothers. (25) Jesus called them together and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. (26) Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, (27) and whoever wants to be first must be your slave-- (28) just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."

Mar 10:35-45 NIV Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to him. "Teacher," they said, "we want you to do for us whatever we ask." (36) "What do you want me to do for you?" he asked. (37) They replied, "Let one of us sit at your right and the other at your left in your glory." (38) "You don't know what you are asking," Jesus said. "Can you drink the cup I drink or be baptized with the baptism I am baptized with?" (39) "We can," they answered. Jesus said to them, "You will drink the cup I drink and be baptized with the baptism I am baptized with, (40) but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared." (41) When the ten heard about this, they became indignant with James and John. (42) Jesus called them together and said, "You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. (43) Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, (44) and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. (45) For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."

Of the Time

We need to know a little about the times to understand this.

  • Advancement, in any enterprise, was mostly about who you knew, not what you could do. So what James and John were doing was typical for the time and place. It’s just that they didn’t yet understand what they were asking for.
  • They are, however, getting the picture a little bit – they understand that Christ, unique among leaders, highly values women and children. No doubt it was quite clever to have mom do the asking.
Christ’s answer

Having dealt with the mothers and children, having sent the rich young ruler away with his wealth, Christ now reveals some interesting facts to them:

  • You don’t know what you’re asking for. This is much more dangerous and painful than you think.
  • Even then, such a position is not mine to grant; rather it belongs to the father.
  • But don’t worry; you may not get the positions, but you will get the suffering that comes with such a commitment.

This seems rather a painful reply, but even at that, the rest of the disciples are resentful at the asking.

The disciples – dealing with ambition

Having just heard that suffering and misery go with the job, and that they’ve asked the wrong person, you’d think the disciples would be smiling at the comeuppance of James and John. But they’re not; they’re indignant. So Jesus explains to them how the kingdom works: servant leadership.

Servant Leadership

Think about it: what does the average pastor/minister do? His days are filled with other peoples’ problems. He visits the sick; those in prison (yes, it does happen that way) and generally performs well as the servant to his congregation. It is the typical servant leadership of our time. Being a pastor is not a time-clock employment.

But it does have a surprising result for those who aren’t pastors. Servant leadership is a style. Those who use it get surprising results:

  • The people who work for such a leader are extremely loyal to him.
  • They are also those who perform beyond expectations. Such a leader will often hear that his people are mediocre (when he takes the job) and later hear complaints that he’s hogging all the good people.

What does it come down to? Simply this: the imitation of Christ. If you pattern your ways after him; if you follow him no matter what or where; and if you bless his name that he lets you do so, you will be great in the kingdom – even if the world never notices.


[1] On one occasion I had (actually, thought I had) such a privilege. A heady experience.

[2] 1st Timothy 6:10

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