The story of David and Bathsheba
has one particular disadvantage for the teacher: it is so beautifully done
that there is very little to add. Let us begin by looking at how God deals
with David's sin:
(2 Sam 12:1-25 NIV) The LORD sent Nathan to David. When he
came to him, he said, "There were two men in a certain town, one rich and
the other poor. {2} The rich man had a very large number of sheep and cattle,
{3} but the poor man had nothing except one little ewe lamb he had bought. He
raised it, and it grew up with him and his children. It shared his food, drank
from his cup and even slept in his arms. It was like a daughter to him. {4}
"Now a traveler came to the rich man, but the rich man refrained from
taking one of his own sheep or cattle to prepare a meal for the traveler who
had come to him. Instead, he took the ewe lamb that belonged to the poor man
and prepared it for the one who had come to him." {5} David burned with
anger against the man and said to Nathan, "As surely as the LORD lives,
the man who did this deserves to die! {6} He must pay for that lamb four times
over, because he did such a thing and had no pity." {7} Then Nathan said
to David, "You are the man! This is what the LORD, the God of Israel,
says: 'I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you from the hand of
Saul. {8} I gave your master's house to you, and your master's wives into your
arms. I gave you the house of Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too
little, I would have given you even more. {9} Why did you despise the word of
the LORD by doing what is evil in his eyes? You struck down Uriah the Hittite
with the sword and took his wife to be your own. You killed him with the sword
of the Ammonites. {10} Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your
house, because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be
your own.' {11} "This is what the LORD says: 'Out of your own household I
am going to bring calamity upon you. Before your very eyes I will take your
wives and give them to one who is close to you, and he will lie with your wives
in broad daylight. {12} You did it in secret, but I will do this thing in broad
daylight before all Israel.'" {13} Then David said to Nathan, "I have
sinned against the LORD." Nathan replied, "The LORD has taken away
your sin. You are not going to die. {14} But because by doing this you have
made the enemies of the LORD show utter contempt, the son born to you will
die." {15} After Nathan had gone home, the LORD struck the child that
Uriah's wife had borne to David, and he became ill. {16} David pleaded with God
for the child. He fasted and went into his house and spent the nights lying on
the ground. {17} The elders of his household stood beside him to get him up
from the ground, but he refused, and he would not eat any food with them. {18}
On the seventh day the child died. David's servants were afraid to tell him
that the child was dead, for they thought, "While the child was still
living, we spoke to David but he would not listen to us. How can we tell him
the child is dead? He may do something desperate." {19} David noticed that
his servants were whispering among themselves and he realized the child was
dead. "Is the child dead?" he asked. "Yes," they replied,
"he is dead." {20} Then David got up from the ground. After he had
washed, put on lotions and changed his clothes, he went into the house of the
LORD and worshiped. Then he went to his own house, and at his request they
served him food, and he ate. {21} His servants asked him, "Why are you
acting this way? While the child was alive, you fasted and wept, but now that
the child is dead, you get up and eat!" {22} He answered, "While the
child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, 'Who knows? The LORD may
be gracious to me and let the child live.' {23} But now that he is dead, why
should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not
return to me." {24} Then David comforted his wife Bathsheba, and he went
to her and lay with her. She gave birth to a son, and they named him Solomon.
The LORD loved him; {25} and because the LORD loved him, he sent word through
Nathan the prophet to name him Jedidiah.
Action!
The common belief of Christians
is that God will "do nothing" about our sins. Somehow, we have
convinced ourselves that sin has no divine consequence. Indeed, some of us
extend this to "no earthly consequences." But see the truth
portrayed clearly here.
Why God Acts
God moves in this instance for
two reasons:
- First, to show that hidden sin
cannot remain that way. So many of us think, like David, we are so clever
that no one will ever find out. It is not so. Even if it comes out
during the Judgment, it is not so.
- Next, in this instance, to show
us that no one is exempt from the consequences of sin. No one - not the
rich and the powerful, for David is a king. No one - not even the one who
walks so closely to God that he was called a "man after God's own
heart." Past service is no cover to present sin.
How God Acts
God has a particular style.
- He likes to work by means of a
messenger. This is fitting for most of us, because it gives us the
choice: repentance or defiance. Defiance is easy when the messenger is
human like we are; and God will not force us to repent. He sends his messenger
in frail human form so that the choice will be ours - alone.
- He sends a clear indication of
the sin. It is not just some vague mention that the books are a little
out of balance; it is specific to the case. Often, this is our
conscience; here it is the prophet.
Consequences of Sin
We like to justify our sins on
the ground of "nobody got hurt - it's a victimless sin." God does
not work that way; sin has consequences.
- The consequences are
parallel to the sin. David commits adultery, a sin against
faithfulness and sexual purity. For this he will get Absalom's revolt, in
which his own son will betray his father for the crown - and this will
come from a case of rape in his own household. David commits murder, and
therefore the sword will never leave his house.
- What is done in secret will
be seen in public. God understands that we tried to hide it;
therefore, He will expose it.
- There will be consequences
to the innocent as well as the guilty. The child, for example, dies -
for what fault of its own? Think how Bathsheba must have felt when it was
told to her that her first born child was dead. Indeed, the consequences
go far beyond his household. The enemies of God hear about it, and
pronounce him a hypocrite - and thus are barred from learning about the
one true God.
One thing is crucial in
understanding the consequences of sin: David repented. These are the
consequences of sin on a man who repented.
- So many of us think, "All
I have to do is pray for forgiveness, and nothing bad will come of
it." Do you think that God is so easily fooled? Do you think he
will neglect your instruction? Do you think he will neglect the
instruction of those around you?
- This is the consequence for a
man who repents. Think, then, of what God would need to do for one who
refused to repent.
It is our great good fortune and
gift that David is a poet; his repentance is documented for us in Psalm 51 -
the way home.
The Way Home
(Psa 51 NIV) For the director of music. A psalm of David.
When the prophet Nathan came to him after David had committed adultery with
Bathsheba. Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according
to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. {2} Wash away all my
iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. {3} For I know my transgressions, and my
sin is always before me. {4} Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what
is evil in your sight, so that you are proved right when you speak and
justified when you judge. {5} Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time
my mother conceived me. {6} Surely you desire truth in the inner parts ; you
teach me wisdom in the inmost place. {7} Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be
clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. {8} Let me hear joy and
gladness; let the bones you have crushed rejoice. {9} Hide your face from my
sins and blot out all my iniquity. {10} Create in me a pure heart, O God, and
renew a steadfast spirit within me. {11} Do not cast me from your presence or
take your Holy Spirit from me. {12} Restore to me the joy of your salvation and
grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me. {13} Then I will teach transgressors
your ways, and sinners will turn back to you. {14} Save me from bloodguilt, O
God, the God who saves me, and my tongue will sing of your righteousness. {15}
O Lord, open my lips, and my mouth will declare your praise. {16} You do not
delight in sacrifice, or I would bring it; you do not take pleasure in burnt
offerings. {17} The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and
contrite heart, O God, you will not despise. {18} In your good pleasure make
Zion prosper; build up the walls of Jerusalem. {19} Then there will be
righteous sacrifices, whole burnt offerings to delight you; then bulls will be
offered on your altar.
Asking Mercy and Pardon
The first step - and it is only
the first step - is to go to God and ask his mercy and pardon. This should not
be a formality, however. You are not entitled to it.
The basis for asking for pardon
is simply this: God is merciful, and God is compassionate. We ask for pardon
based upon his character. What you must not do is to ask pardon on the basis
of your own merit (what is your righteousness to God).
Nor should you ask pardon of God
on the basis of your circumstances. You may feel that you have much in the way
of mitigating circumstance. Perhaps you do; the Lord is just and will
consider these things. But you have no standing to use them as basis for
pardon - only his love and compassion bring that.
Note how David phrases this: he
asks to be "washed" or "cleansed." The metaphor is a very
powerful one. It is as if sin is so much dirt and stain clinging to what
should be an immaculate soul. Indeed, this is the nature of the fallen world.
Man was created good; sin has stained him.
David asks for the "joy of
your salvation" - some sign that God has indeed forgiven him. Do you take
God at his word in this? David did, and was given Solomon as a sign of the
return of God's favor.
Acknowledge the Sin
Most of us are good at asking
pardon - but we would just as soon not mention why. See how David does it
here:
- Sin is against God. He
is the one who is righteous; any sin is an offense against him. Because
he is the one who is completely righteous, he is the one who can judge us
with justice. Because he is completely righteous, he is the one who will
hide his face from us until we do repent.
- Sin is a result of our
nature. Acknowledging the fact that he is a sinner, indeed from his
birth, David does not try to deceive God (as we so often do). There is no
sense of "I'm really a good guy" here. He admits that he is so
much a sinner that there is nothing he can do to atone for it
(verse 16). So often we try and "make it up to God." It won't
work. He will not bargain with sin - or the sinner.
- David names the specific
sin. We are often good at confessing that we are sinners - but no
details, please. That's as useful as going down to the police station and
turning yourself in as a criminal - but for no specific crime. David
calls it bloodguilt (verse 14) and so it is.
Restoration of spirit
The mercy is asked; the sin
confessed, now we must have restoration - a return to the fellowship of God.
There are two key attributes of this:
- The pure heart. Notice
that David asks God for this. No matter how hard we try, we cannot create
a pure heart in ourselves. It's like restoring virginity. The clean
heart is a steadfast one, full of the joy of salvation. How does God do
this? Notice in verse 11 one of the rare instances of the Holy Spirit in
the Old Testament. He is the agent of God's cleansing. In the New
Testament we see him sent to convict the world of sin and judgment; here
we see him as the one who creates the pure heart.
- The Broken Spirit. If
the Holy Spirit is to reside within you, creating that pure heart, he must
have no rivals. Your own spirit should not be there to proudly resist
him. "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of
heaven." It is because the poor in spirit, the broken in spirit, do
not resist the Holy Spirit. The poor in spirit have the love of God as
their first love - and love him with all heart, soul, mind and strength.
Return to the work
If repentance produces no action,
I would question its reality. If you are forgiven, you will do something about
it. As the old Scottish motto has it, "Saved - to Serve." David
mentions the two aspects of the return to service of the sinner:
- Sinners being turned.
This would correspond to evangelism for us. Is there any greater
testimony than that of a repentant sinner?
- Righteous sacrifice.
For the Christian, this would represent the good works of charity and
other service to be performed.
Appeal
Some as you read this will think,
"That's nice. A very concise view of the chapters in question." You
will have missed the point if you do.
My purpose here is to point out
to you the way home. If I may, let me be your "Nathan" this day,
though I know no details. Like Nathan, I would point out to you that no sin
can remain hidden forever - and that no one, whether by past service or
circumstance, is exempt from the righteous judgment of God.
I would ask you, then, to do
these four things:
- Go to God, basing yourself upon
his mercy and grace alone, and ask his pardon. If you are able, show him
you mean it by asking the pardon of the one you might have offended.
David didn't have that chance with Uriah. Take advantage of it if you
can.
- Acknowledge your sin as being
against God, who is the fountain of righteousness. Do not excuse
yourself; do not offer to make it up to him; just be specific and admit
it.
- Ask him for his restoration.
We are to be ambassadors of reconciliation for Christ, and his
reconciliation will come first to us. Crush your proud spirit; ask his
Holy Spirit in to rule in its place.
- When he grants your plea -
when, not if - then turn with gladness to the work he gives you. Reach
out to the lost, telling them your story not as one who is proud of
righteousness but rather one who is glad of forgiveness. If it is given
to you to do good works, do them acknowledging the one who forgave you.